s\u1ed1 38, 39 v\u00e0 40, ph\u00e1t h\u00e0nh ng\u00e0y 10 \u0111\u1ebfn 17\/6\/1931)<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/b><\/p>\n
H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng chi ti\u1ebft gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb m\u00e0 khi tho\u00e1ng nh\u00ecn, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a g\u00ec trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y.<\/p>\n
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V\u00e0o m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd, ng\u0103n n\u1eafp, con c\u00e1i ngoan \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c t\u1ed1t, c\u01a1m ngon, canh ng\u1ecdt, c\u00e1i \u00e1o, c\u00e1i qu\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i n\u00e0o b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ee9t khuy, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c thanh th\u1ea3n, tr\u00ed \u00f3c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i sau m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y lao \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3.<\/p>\n
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Nh\u1eefng ch\u0103m s\u00f3c t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb \u0111\u00f3, ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng mua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf n\u00e0y, \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh chu \u0111\u00e1o, kh\u00f4ng qu\u00ean tr\u1ea3 ti\u1ec1n cho th\u1ee3 gi\u1eb7t, ti\u1ec1n \u0111i ch\u1ee3 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ea5u b\u1ebfp\u2026 v\u00e0 v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i lo \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o m\u1ecdi c\u00f4ng to vi\u1ec7c l\u1edbn trong ng\u00e0y. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi mang trong m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i xin \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e1i ph\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n
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Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111a s\u1ed1 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u00ec m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch mang t\u00ednh kinh t\u1ebf nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1eafn. Ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f4ng ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 r\u1ea5t k\u00e9m, vi\u1ec7c qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd m\u1ecdi ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ra sao, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m n\u1ea3y sinh ra m\u1ed9t l\u1edbp ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb khinh gh\u00e9t, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea3i \u0111i l\u00e0m thu\u00ea v\u00e0 l\u1ea1i g\u1eb7p \u0111\u00fang ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 nh\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng m\u00ecnh\u2026<\/p>\n
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Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1ed1ng trong th\u1ef1c tr\u1ea1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o vai tr\u00f2 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0: b\u00e0 ho\u00e0ng c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u00e0 v\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a ta, ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi con g\u00e1i hay ch\u1ecb em g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a ta.<\/p>\n
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Trong khi ch\u00fang ta \u0111i l\u00e0m, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 sang h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m, chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2, \u0111\u00e1nh b\u00e0i, t\u1ed5 t\u00f4m, tam c\u00fac v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, v\u00ec cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3i lo \u0111i bu\u00f4n, \u0111i b\u00e1n, lo c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n \u0111ong g\u1ea1o, mua ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed1t, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea7u c\u01a1 bu\u00f4n b\u00e1n. V\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng r\u01a1i v\u00e0o c\u1ea3nh t\u00fang thi\u1ebfu, \u0111\u00f4i khi h\u1ecd tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u00e0nh th\u1ea1o tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi\u2026 L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n thi\u1ebfu ti\u1ec1n, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac s\u1ebd n\u1eb1m trong tay b\u1ecdn bu\u00f4n l\u1eadu, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang s\u1ebd can thi\u1ec7p v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng ri\u00eang t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, ch\u00fang c\u00f2n \u201c\u0103n c\u1eafp\u201d c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 ch\u00fang ta r\u1ea5t t\u1ed3i!<\/p>\n
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C\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00ean r\u1eb1ng: nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb gi\u00fap vi\u1ec7c trong nh\u00e0 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 t\u00ednh, t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 \u00e1i cao, h\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ngh\u1ec7 s\u1ef9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u1ebfp h\u1ea1ng \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t. H\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft tr\u1ed5 t\u00e0i, nh\u1eefng t\u00e0i l\u1ebb \u00edt \u1ecfi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 n\u00e0o hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. M\u1ed9t anh \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ebfp s\u1ebd n\u1ea5u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eefa c\u01a1m th\u1eadt ngon ch\u1ec9 khi n\u00e0o ch\u00ednh b\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch \u0103n ngon nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?! Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ea5u b\u1ebfp th\u00edch vi\u1ec7c b\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 \u0111\u00fang nh\u1eefng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i \u1edf v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng b\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 b\u1eefa c\u01a1m ngon v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 b\u1eefa c\u01a1m kh\u00f4ng ra g\u00ec.<\/p>\n
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T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng trong \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi culy k\u00e9o xe, b\u1eefa \u0103n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u1edf nh\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn n\u00e0o c\u1ea3, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecf ra kh\u00f4ng \u00edt ti\u1ec1n. Trong khi, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi lao \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed3ng l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1eeb 5 \u0111\u1ebfn 10 \u0111\u1ed3ng m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ng, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng b\u1eefa \u0103n d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu, v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n \u0103n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i do ch\u00ednh tay ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3, ho\u1eb7c con g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd x\u00e0o n\u1ea5u. C\u00e1c b\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u00f4i khi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ngh\u1ec7 s\u1ef9, h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1eefng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o v\u00e0 t\u00e0i n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. C\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c phong c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0o d\u1ecbp gi\u1ed7 T\u1ebft, b\u1eefa \u0103n trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c l\u1edbn c\u1ee7a b\u1ecdn nh\u00e0 gi\u00e0u. Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m vui hi\u1ebfm hoi, ch\u1ec9 nh\u1edd v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sung s\u01b0\u1edbng, d\u00f9 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 v\u00e0i ba gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3.<\/p>\n
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Nh\u01b0ng, nh\u1eefng t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i \u1edf tr\u00ean, t\u1ea1o h\u00f3a ch\u1ec9 d\u00e0nh cho v\u00e0i ba ng\u01b0\u1eddi, nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u01b0u \u0111\u00e3i \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt c\u1ee7a Th\u00e1nh th\u1ea7n ban cho m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n. \u0110a s\u1ed1 trong ch\u00fang ta, m\u1ea5y ai ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ngh\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec1 l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 lu\u00f4n b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n, k\u00eau ca, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 th\u1ee5 h\u01b0\u1edfng ni\u1ec1m vui th\u00fa \u0111\u00f3. C\u0169ng v\u00ec th\u1ebf, ta \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e1n m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c trong nh\u00e0 cho c\u00e1c b\u00e0 v\u1ee3, \u0111\u1ec3 qua \u0111\u00f3 ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh qu\u1ea3 m\u00e0 nh\u1edd t\u00e0i n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, h\u1ecd \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi sinh ho\u1ea1t trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh nh\u1edd s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft s\u00e2u s\u1eafc vai tr\u00f2 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd trong l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c ch\u1ec9 huy v\u00e0 qu\u00e1n xuy\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m.<\/p>\n
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C\u00e1c b\u00e0, c\u00e1c c\u00f4 h\u00e3y y\u00ean t\u00e2m, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 d\u1ee5ng \u00fd n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft c\u00e1c v\u1ecb ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u1ed9i tr\u1ee3 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 lo c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u1edf nh\u00e0. C\u00e1c v\u1ecb ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n t\u1ef1 do \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 s\u1edf th\u00edch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e1ch b\u1ea3o, ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi s\u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh gi\u00e1o s\u01b0, b\u00e1c s\u1ef9, k\u1ef9 s\u01b0, lu\u1eadt s\u01b0, nh\u00e0 b\u00e1o, nh\u00e0 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb, v\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean th\u1ec3 thao, nh\u00e0 di\u1ec5n thuy\u1ebft hay h\u1ecda s\u1ef9, nh\u1ea1c s\u1ef9\u2026 Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u1ec1 n\u00e0o l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f3ng c\u1eeda ng\u0103n c\u00e1c v\u1ecb. T\u00f4i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 nh\u00ecn theo c\u00e1ch gi\u1ec5u c\u1ee3t c\u00e1i tinh th\u1ea7n cao c\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef. Ch\u1ee9ng minh cho quan \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng kh\u00f4ng d\u1ecbch v\u1edf k\u1ecbch c\u1ee7a Moliere \u201cNg\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 tr\u00ed th\u1ee9c\u201d, \u0111\u00e0nh r\u1eb1ng t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m n\u00e0y kh\u00f3 d\u1ecbch h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng v\u1edf nh\u01b0 \u201cNg\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ec3n l\u1eadn\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201cTr\u01b0\u1edfng gi\u1ea3 h\u1ecdc l\u00e0m sang\u201d. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u00eam \u0111\u1ec1m, v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng b\u1eefa \u0103n ngon v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vui v\u1ebb.<\/p>\n
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\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 n\u00eau v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng tham gia v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai cho nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 mang phong c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c nhau c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 \u1edf nh\u1eefng chi ti\u1ebft c\u1ee7a c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ea7n quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ed1n ti\u00eau ch\u00ed sau \u0111\u00e2y:<\/p>\n
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1. H\u1ecd l\u00e0 con g\u00e1i.<\/p>\n
2. H\u1ecd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3.<\/p>\n
3. H\u1ecd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n
4. H\u1ecd l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0, m\u1ed9t vai tr\u00f2 tr\u00ean h\u1eb3n ba ti\u00eau ch\u00ed c\u00f3 t\u00ednh quy \u01b0\u1edbc nh\u01b0 \u1edf tr\u00ean.<\/p>\n
Th\u1eadt nguy hi\u1ec3m v\u00ec c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng sinh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con trai, v\u00e0 l\u1ea1i mu\u1ed1n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng c\u00f3 con trai n\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y c\u00e1c con g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con trai, h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t gi\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t ?!<\/p>\n
C\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf s\u1ebd \u0111em l\u1ea1i gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb g\u00ec? Theo c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i, c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111em l\u1ea1i k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng minh c\u00e1i gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, ngo\u00e0i nh\u1eefng giai tho\u1ea1i ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 c\u0103n c\u1ee9 n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, theo nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc, vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c cho c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c trong m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i d\u00e0nh cho \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng con trai v\u00e0 con g\u00e1i c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 quy lu\u1eadt c\u1ee7a b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0o. M\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c, ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u c\u0103n b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng, c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn tranh lu\u1eadn, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u1edf m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u00f2n qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1eefng tranh c\u00e3i v\u1ec1 chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c trong quan ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 lu\u00e2n l\u00fd nh\u01b0 \u1edf x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ta. Vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi con g\u00e1i khi c\u00f2n \u00edt tu\u1ed5i ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i n\u00e2ng niu nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed3 trang s\u1ee9c qu\u00fd gi\u00e1, v\u00e0 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c \u0111i l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng. C\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 con t\u00ecm b\u1ec1 gia th\u1ea5t, m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111em ra tranh c\u00e3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f4ng khai hay t\u1ef1 do, kh\u00e1c h\u1eb3n vi\u1ec7c k\u00e9n v\u1ee3 cho nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con trai \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed7 \u0111\u1ea1t, ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ee3i ng\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tuy\u1ec3n m\u1ed9.<\/p>\n
Vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 g\u00e1i cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 10 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3 trang s\u1ee9c qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n m\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 cho b\u00e9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3. H\u00e3y gi\u00fap n\u00f3 ti\u1ebfp thu nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 tr\u00ean n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng v\u1ecb tr\u00ed x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 c\u01a1 s\u1edf v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n c\u00f3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u1ebfn giai \u0111o\u1ea1n t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 g\u00e1i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 con g\u00e1i, l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn d\u01b0 lu\u1eadn chung quanh, qua \u0111\u00f3 gi\u00fap c\u00f4 con g\u00e1i trang b\u1ecb nh\u1eefng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u1ee9ng ph\u00f3 v\u00e0 v\u1eadt l\u1ed9n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng di\u1ec5n bi\u1ebfn n\u00e0y. D\u1ea1y con bi\u1ebft k\u00ecm ch\u1ebf, bi\u1ebft dung h\u00f2a gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn ch\u1ee7 quan v\u00e0 d\u01b0 lu\u1eadn x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, b\u1edfi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n d\u1ec5 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 d\u00f2m ng\u00f3 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eddi nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t. Giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y, ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n gi\u00fap chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f4 g\u00e1i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m c\u00f4 d\u00e2u. Nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi con g\u00e1i, \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t th\u00f4ng qua t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch, m\u00e0 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh c\u00f3 th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 ta. T\u1edbi n\u1eefa, c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap c\u00f4 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 \u00edt nh\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 b\u1ecb ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u1edf m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i n\u1eb7ng t\u00ednh l\u1ec5 gi\u00e1o, n\u1eb7ng t\u00ednh t\u1eadp qu\u00e1n, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u1ea3 th\u00f3i \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c gi\u1ea3, tr\u01b0\u1edbc ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u1ea5y th\u00ec m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi con g\u00e1i c\u00f3 ch\u00ed kh\u00ed s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi lao \u0111\u1ed9ng, l\u1ec5 c\u01b0\u1edbi th\u1eadt ra ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh gi\u1eefa m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0, nh\u1eb1m t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 vun \u0111\u1eafp cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, sinh ra nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con v\u00e0 ch\u0103m lo nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda, c\u01a1m n\u01b0\u1edbc, d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con c\u00e1i theo c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c r\u1ea5t h\u1ec7 tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp cao h\u01a1n, vi\u1ec7c k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u00e0 l\u00e0m \u0111\u00e1m c\u01b0\u1edbi l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c k\u1ebft giao gi\u1eefa hai gia \u0111\u00ecnh, vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u00f2n \u1ea9n ch\u1ee9a c\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ea7u c\u01a1 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00ec n\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn danh v\u00e0 gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf n\u00e0y, nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n theo quy lu\u1eadt l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng quan t\u00e2m v\u1edbi m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi con g\u00e1i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0 mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c g\u00e2y n\u00ean t\u00e1c h\u1ea1i cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. \u0110\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac, ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 du nh\u1eadp t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u1ed1i h\u00e0nh x\u1eed m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ch\u01b0a th\u1ea5y bao gi\u1edd \u1edf n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u00ecnh, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 \u1edf nh\u1eefng d\u00e2n t\u1ed9c kh\u00e1c, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y ngay c\u1ea3 \u1edf t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp cai tr\u1ecb!<\/p>\n
Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y s\u1edbm lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf quan ni\u1ec7m vi\u1ec7c coi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ed3 trang s\u1ee9c, vi\u1ec7c c\u1ed1 c\u00f4ng l\u1ea5y b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n s\u1ef1 h\u1ee3m m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ec3 khoe v\u1edbi \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ef1 n\u00f4ng n\u1ed5i.<\/p>\n
H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 m\u1edbi c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quan ni\u1ec7m t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 r\u1ea5t cao. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd s\u1edbm m\u1ea5t ngay n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng mang \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 v\u1ec1 v\u1edbi \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u00e0 ti\u00ean, \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n s\u1ef1 say s\u01b0a trong v\u00e0i ba ng\u00e0y khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u00e0 ho\u00e0ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 trong ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111em \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho ta m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu, ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 ta c\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea3o, h\u01b0\u1edfng \u1ee9ng vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi l\u1edbn c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u00fang v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac gia \u0111\u00ecnh? Th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u1ed9i tr\u1ee3? Vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean l\u00e0 \u1edf c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9, d\u00f9 h\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i th\u00ec v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0.<\/p>\n
Ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3i ti\u1ebfn ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng quan ni\u1ec7m c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft cho nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u1ed9i tr\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xa r\u1eddi m\u1ed9t nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u0103n b\u1ea3n l\u00e0: ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u1edbi c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111em l\u1ea1i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ti\u1ec1n, c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 danh, c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u01b0u. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a, n\u1ebfu k\u1ebb \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng trong nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ec3 bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i, sau khi \u0111i l\u00e0m v\u1ec1 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng b\u1eefa \u0103n l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh, v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd g\u1ecdn g\u00e0ng c\u1ee7a c\u1eeda nh\u00e0, c\u00e1c con kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh, ngoan ngo\u00e3n, l\u1ec5 ph\u00e9p, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1, nh\u1ecbp nh\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng l\u00e0 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean s\u1ef1 vui v\u1ebb trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
H\u00e3y l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ng\u01b0\u1eddi con g\u00e1i ph\u1ea3i g\u1eafn li\u1ec1n v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9. L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c di\u1ec5n ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tu\u1ea7n t\u1ef1, l\u00f4 z\u00edch. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi con g\u00e1i, b\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c l\u00f2e m\u1eaft ai \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng toan t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c s\u0103n l\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m ch\u1ed3ng.<\/p>\n
Sai l\u1ea7m l\u1edbn v\u00e0 ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u1edf c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1u quan ni\u1ec7m c\u00f3 t\u00ednh gi\u1ea3 thi\u1ebft l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u00e1c em g\u00e1i r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc th\u00ec \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1 gi\u1ea3, trong khi th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c h\u1eb3n. T\u00f4i xin c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3: \u1edf m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y c\u00e1c em g\u00e1i v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c v\u00e0 qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 kh\u00e1ch c\u00f3 quy m\u00f4, trong khi th\u1ef1c tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u em g\u00e1i, khi l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi lao \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i lo qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1edbi m\u1ee9c thu nh\u1eadp h\u1eb1ng th\u00e1ng kho\u1ea3ng 50 \u0111\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1c.<\/p>\n
M\u1ed9t sai l\u1ea7m n\u1eefa c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 hi\u1ec7n nay khi ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng, m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n v\u00e0 ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, c\u1ee9 cho con g\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i h\u1ecdc th\u00ec gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i lo d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o ban g\u00ec n\u1eefa. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng, vi\u1ec7c d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con g\u00e1i trong m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh s\u1ebd l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng thi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu v\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng cho su\u1ed1t c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0m \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi con g\u00e1i.<\/p>\n
\u0110i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y cho c\u00e1c c\u00f4 g\u00e1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i do m\u00ecnh, hay cha m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7. Kh\u00f4ng lo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb, khi l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh, c\u00e1c c\u00f4 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 v\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t quan ch\u1ee9c v\u1edbi thu nh\u1eadp c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0n \u0111\u1ed3ng m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ng. Vi\u1ec7c qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd, chi ti\u00eau, ti\u1ebfp kh\u00e1ch, ti\u1ec7c t\u00f9ng l\u00e0m sao cho h\u1ee3p l\u00fd v\u00e0 sang tr\u1ecdng. C\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f4 g\u00e1i \u1ea5y l\u1ea1i c\u01b0\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng lao \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u01b0\u01a1ng thi\u1ec7n, thu nh\u1eadp ch\u1ec9 5 ch\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00e1ng v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a c\u00f4, s\u1ef1 th\u00e1o v\u00e1t, bi\u1ebft vun v\u00e9n trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, t\u1eeb b\u1eefa c\u01a1m h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 50 xu ti\u1ec1n ch\u1ee3, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng chu \u0111\u00e1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c cho 12 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ebfu khi nh\u00e0 c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c.<\/p>\n
\u1ede c\u00e1c n\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 b\u00ean ch\u00e2u \u00c2u, nh\u1eefng t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh theo nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng t\u1eadp t\u1ee5c c\u1ed5 truy\u1ec1n, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng quan ni\u1ec7m v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta. H\u1ecd theo ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi xu h\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ea3o t\u1ed3n cho nh\u1eefng th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 n\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfp m\u1ed9t quan ni\u1ec7m th\u00edch h\u1ee3p v\u1ec1 lu\u00e2n l\u00fd, \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p do nh\u1eefng th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 \u0111i tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i. H\u1ecd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i mang t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh nh\u01b0 trong l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c sinh \u0111\u1ebb ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n. H\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c theo nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc, con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb nh\u01b0: c\u00e1c v\u1ecb s\u1ef9 quan, nh\u00e0 t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh hay lu\u1eadt s\u01b0 s\u1ebd k\u1ebft giao v\u1edbi nhau, m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng theo m\u1ed9t ngh\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec1. Nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p kh\u00f4ng theo \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f3i quen n\u00e0y s\u1ebd b\u1ecb khinh r\u1ebb v\u00e0 mi\u1ec7t th\u1ecb, th\u00e0nh th\u1ea3m h\u1ecda.<\/p>\n
\u1ede n\u01b0\u1edbc ta, kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m d\u00e2n t\u1ed9c d\u00e2n ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi tr\u1ecdng ngay c\u1ea3 trong c\u00e1c tri\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea1i Vua Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 \u1edf nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 Nho ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh. Vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch l\u00e2u d\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi nh\u01b0 quy lu\u1eadt. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o quan ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o nhau v\u00e0 m\u1edbi c\u00f3 c\u00e2u ch\u00e2m ng\u00f4n: \u201c Kh\u00f4ng ai gi\u00e0u ba h\u1ecd, ch\u1eb3ng ai kh\u00f3 ba \u0111\u1eddi\u201d.<\/p>\n
Soi t\u1eeb n\u1ed9i dung c\u00e2u ch\u00e2m ng\u00f4n tr\u00ean, ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 v\u00e0 c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n h\u00e0nh c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft vi\u1ec7c d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o con c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang n\u00ean nh\u00ecn tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t tr\u1eafc v\u00e0 r\u1ee7i ro trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o v\u00e0 \u1edf nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u00e9o le c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd m\u1ea5t hy v\u1ecdng \u1edf m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y s\u1ebd kh\u00e1 gi\u1ea3 h\u01a1n. M\u1ed9t v\u1ecb quan, c\u0169ng n\u00ean d\u1ea1y con g\u00e1i m\u00ecnh vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng lo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb s\u1ebd l\u00e0m v\u1ee3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi lao \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o m\u1ea5y c\u0169ng n\u00ean d\u1ea1y con g\u00e1i m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ec7nh ph\u1ee5 phu nh\u00e2n. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u n\u00ean hi\u1ec3u, gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 d\u1ea1y con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng lo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd c\u1ee7a s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn.<\/p>\n
Ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean tr\u01b0\u1edfng gi\u1ea3 h\u00f3a t\u1eeb khi ch\u00fang ta ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00c2u ch\u00e2u, v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ecbu \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng quy ch\u1ebf do h\u1ecd mang \u0111\u1ebfn. T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 kh\u00e1 r\u00f5 r\u1ec7t v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i h\u1ecd. Th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 l\u00e0m bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i gi\u1ed1ng n\u00f2i. Vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh s\u1ebd mang t\u00ednh truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng theo khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng ti\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi h\u1eefng t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp \u0103n n\u00ean l\u00e0m ra, cho d\u00f9 ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn c\u00f2n thi\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3 nh\u01b0: t\u00edch l\u0169y, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd, t\u1ea1o n\u00ean nh\u1eefng s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 \u0111e d\u1ecda ph\u00e1 h\u1ee7y.<\/p>\n
Trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n mang t\u00ednh quy lu\u1eadt, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i nh\u1edb, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t phong t\u1ee5c trong s\u00e1ng \u1edf m\u1ed9t d\u00e2n t\u1ed9c ngh\u00e8o kh\u1ed5 nh\u01b0ng h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n
Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9 kh\u1ed5 s\u1edf v\u1eabn c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng, ng\u00e0y mai con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eb1ng v\u00e0 h\u01a1n h\u1eb3n ch\u00fang ta. S\u1ed1ng trong m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i nh\u01b0 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o c\u00e1c con c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i t\u00ednh t\u1edbi ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5p, h\u1eb9p h\u00f2i v\u00ec l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng h\u1ee7 t\u1ee5c, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u00edt h\u1ee7 t\u1ee5c mang t\u00ednh gi\u1ea3 t\u1ea1o.<\/p>\n
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ta r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn m\u1ecdi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn. Ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1i l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a Nguy\u1ec5n Tr\u00e3i, v\u1ecb l\u00e3nh t\u1ee5 anh minh nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ed1t c\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f4ng d\u00e2n ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c trung th\u1ef1c (\u2026), so v\u1edbi Nguy\u1ec5n Du, Nguy\u1ec5n Du \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i l\u00ean m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch hay h\u01a1n trong vi\u1ec7c c\u00e1c \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o con g\u00e1i. L\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ea3m trong nh\u00e0, c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ecdc cho con g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nghe. Theo t\u00f4i, vi\u1ec7c \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o t\u00ednh th\u1ef1c ti\u1ec5n c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. T\u00f4i t\u1ef1 th\u1ea5y, nh\u1eefng tham v\u1ecdng th\u1ea5p k\u00e9m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111em chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi c\u00e1c v\u1ecb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t t\u1ebb nh\u1ea1t nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 th\u1eadt l\u00f2ng!<\/p>\n
C\u00e1c c\u00f4 g\u00e1i tr\u1ebb, c\u00e1c c\u00f4 h\u00e3y h\u1ecdc, h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ecdc, h\u1ecdc vi\u1ebft, h\u1ecdc t\u00ednh\u2026 T\u00f4i c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng c\u1ea5m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c c\u00f4 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1ecbch s\u1eed, \u0111\u1ebfn khoa h\u1ecdc t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, c\u00e1c c\u00f4 c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n bi\u1ebft t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u nh\u1edd \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ti\u1ebfp thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ti\u1ebfp thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. C\u00e1c c\u00f4 h\u00e3y h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u00e1c l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft v\u1ec1 sinh h\u1ecdc, v\u1ec1 h\u00f3a h\u1ecdc, v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c ch\u1ea5t h\u00f2a tan \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u00f2a tan \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Nh\u01b0ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean, c\u00e1c c\u00f4 h\u00e3y h\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c trong nh\u00e0, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u1ed9i tr\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m l\u1ea5y, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00fap vi\u1ec7c n\u1ebfu c\u00f3. C\u00e1c c\u00f4 h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1eb1ng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n do b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i, c\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u1ee3i th\u1ebf nh\u1edd s\u1eafc \u0111\u1eb9p hay th\u00e2n h\u00ecnh. Nh\u1eefng l\u1ee3i th\u1ebf \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi. C\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i vi\u1ec7c nh\u1edd ph\u1ea5n son l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ecfm. Khi m\u00ecnh nh\u1eadn \u0111\u00f3ng vai \u0111\u00f3, v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh m\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 v\u1eadt trang tr\u00ed cho \u0111\u1eddi. \u0110\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc, kh\u00f4ng \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 nh\u1eb9 d\u1ea1 \u0111\u00e3 coi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 vinh d\u1ef1 v\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
C\u00e1c c\u00f4 h\u00e3y bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c trong m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 n\u00ean r\u1eddi b\u1ecf ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed9i tr\u1ee3, trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i g\u1ecdi \u0111i \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 \u00edch h\u01a1n cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. C\u00e1c c\u00f4 h\u00e3y v\u01b0\u1ee3t l\u00ean c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen x\u1ea5u v\u00e0 t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5, \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m cho c\u00e1c c\u00f4 tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng. \u0110\u1eebng th\u1ea5y vui s\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00ec qu\u00e1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau qu\u00fd b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1edd nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng lao x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 m\u00e3n nguy\u1ec7n do l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 \u00e1i \u0111\u00f4i khi l\u00e0m cho c\u00e1c c\u00f4 kh\u1ed5 c\u1ea3 ki\u1ebfp ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n
Nguy\u1ec5n V\u0103n V\u0129nh<\/p>\n
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ecbch: Nguy\u1ec5n Th\u1ecb M\u01b0\u1eddi (con g\u00e1i th\u1ee9 t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a Nguy\u1ec5n V\u0103n V\u0129nh)<\/p>\n
Nguy\u1ec5n K\u1ef3 (con trai th\u1ee9 n\u0103m c\u1ee7a Nguy\u1ec5n V\u0103n V\u0129nh)<\/p>\n
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