{"id":2435,"date":"2016-05-11T10:18:40","date_gmt":"2016-05-11T03:18:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tannamtu.id.vn\/?p=2435"},"modified":"2016-05-11T10:18:40","modified_gmt":"2016-05-11T03:18:40","slug":"nguoi-me-tot-khong-bao-gio-noi-voi-con-3-cau-nay","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tannamtu.id.vn\/?p=2435","title":{"rendered":"Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 t\u1ed1t kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con 3 c\u00e2u n\u00e0y"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 l\u00fac t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t t\u1edbi t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a con m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u khi ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. Theo c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ebb em, d\u00f9 trong t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0o b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con 3 c\u00e2u d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ra sai s\u00f3t m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m ch\u00fang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5, s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i hay t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i.<\/p>\n

1. \u201cCon l\u00e0m b\u1ed1\/m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu n\u1ed5i!\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

Thay v\u00ec nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0o sai s\u00f3t c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, h\u00e3y n\u00f3i \u201cB\u1ed1\/m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch con l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady\u201d. Th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef ch\u1ec9 khi\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n, g\u00e2y \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c t\u1edbi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 v\u1edbi con sau n\u00e0y. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho con bi\u1ebft t\u1ea1i sao c\u01b0 x\u1eed nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Gi\u00fap con hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang \u201cl\u00e0m b\u1ea1n phi\u1ec1n l\u00f2ng\u201d nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ch\u00fang l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i tinh th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u1edbi bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n thi\u1ebfu t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 hay n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n
\"Ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
C\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u khi con b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh, kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n

2. \u201cCon ngh\u0129 g\u00ec m\u00e0 l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

C\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, v\u00e0 khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean, ch\u00fang ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c nghi ng\u1edd kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. C\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u0111\u00f3 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m h\u01a1n l\u00e0 xem x\u00e9t ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 c\u00e1c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng, k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 thi\u1ebfu kh\u00e1ch quan.<\/p>\n

V\u00ed d\u1ee5: khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng ng\u1ee7 v\u00e0 th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 con g\u00e1i 5 tu\u1ed5i \u0111ang c\u1eaft chi\u1ebfc \u00e1o y\u00eau th\u00edch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 qu\u00e1t l\u00ean \u201cAi cho con l\u00e0m v\u1eady\u201d. H\u00e3y ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, d\u00f9 trong t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0o, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00f4i khi ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u201cs\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o\u201d c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb con m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

Ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y cha m\u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00e0o sai s\u00f3t c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 cho ch\u00fang c\u00e1ch s\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed5i. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u201cc\u00f4ng th\u1ee9c\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n

Thay v\u00ec th\u1ebf, h\u00e3y \u0111i th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0o v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u01b0 \u201cB\u1ed1\/m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch khi con l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf\u2026.\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb nh\u1eadn ra b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch s\u1eefa ch\u1eefa sai l\u1ea7m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n
\"Ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean d\u1ea1y con hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng, c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed th\u1ef1c ra l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n

3. \u201cH\u00e3y l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0y\u2026 ho\u1eb7c th\u1ebf n\u00e0y!\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

C\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed v\u00ec c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i (cha m\u1eb9 m\u1eafng, ph\u1ea1t\u2026), v\u00e0 h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng tr\u1ebb t\u1edbi c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c hay \u0111e d\u1ecda. C\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n trong t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y l\u00e0 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u201cKhi con l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady\u2026, b\u1ed1\/m\u1eb9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y\u2026\u201d. Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 cho con c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec3m chung c\u1ee7a ba c\u00e2u n\u00f3i tr\u00ean l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n t\u1eadp trung s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o con, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi c\u1ee7a con. Trong nhi\u1ec1u t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng, v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u1ec9 n\u1eb1m \u1edf m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u n\u00f3i hay h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. C\u00e1ch ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng th\u00e1i qu\u00e1 ch\u1ec9 khi\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n v\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c (h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a con) m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ed3ng r\u1eb1ng tr\u1ebb ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean d\u1ea1y con hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng, c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed th\u1ef1c ra l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn. M\u1ed9t quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh sai kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u1ea5u, n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t sai l\u1ea7m v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

(Theo Bana Houz\/ Tr\u00ed Th\u1ee9c Tr\u1ebb)<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 l\u00fac t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t t\u1edbi t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a con m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u khi ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, t\u1ee9c […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":31,"featured_media":2436,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[117],"tags":[26,139,23,97,87,95,105,32,42,27,107,93,22,20,30,138,108,106,160,86,109,53,55,34,33,94,96,54,28,31,100,51,24,8,21,25,36,110],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/tannamtu.id.vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/vi-sao-cha-me-thuong-noi-nong-mang-chui-con-cai2.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/tannamtu.id.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2435"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/tannamtu.id.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/tannamtu.id.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tannamtu.id.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/31"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tannamtu.id.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2435"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/tannamtu.id.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2435\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2438,"href":"https:\/\/tannamtu.id.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2435\/revisions\/2438"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tannamtu.id.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2436"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/tannamtu.id.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2435"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tannamtu.id.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2435"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tannamtu.id.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2435"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}